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| Treating the Hurry-Up Epidemic by Cheri Fuller What a privilege and gift it is to be our children’s mothers. Don’t you just love these little—or big—cuties that God picked out of all the kids in the world for us to nurture? Yet along with the honor comes so many chores and responsibilities: preparing meals, running a household, supervising homework, carpooling kids to activities and sports, volunteering at school, tucking children in bed at night, participating in church activities, perhaps juggling a job—and starting over the next day to do it again. Mom, do you have more to do than you can manage sometimes? Do you operate into overdrive? You’re not alone. Over 30 million women, doctors say, suffer from an epidemic disorder of the 21st century called “hurry-up sickness,” like the mother I know who was preparing lunch in the kitchen. Her little boy followed her around as usual, telling a long story about something that happened on the playground at kindergarten. All the while, his distracted, preoccupied mother bustled around. She threw in a load of clothes, then picked things up, whipped up a salad for two girlfriends about to arrive any minute for lunch, and made two phone calls, all in the space of 15 minutes. “Mommy, are you listening?” her young son pleaded. “Sure, honey, I’m listening …” she answered as she hurriedly poured the iced tea. Again he started the story. “Mommy, are you listening?” he pleaded again. Finally, the precious 5-year-old tugged on his mother’s pant leg until she got down on his eye level. “But, Mommy, would you listen with your face?” Our Father God also longs for us, His children, to listen with our face and heart—to have times in which we give Him our full attention and focus. You may have a schedule like Martha, the busy sister in the Bible (see Luke 10:41-42). By the way, I love Marthas; they get so much done. They plan and coordinate retreats and parties. They serve at school and church. We couldn’t do without them! But you can develop a heart like her sister Mary, who made it a priority and took time to focus on listening to Jesus. You will be blessed when He shows you His love and gives you the wisdom and creative ideas you need to guide your children and solve problems as they pop up. God’s Word promises, “Call to me and I will answer you. I’ll tell you marvelous and wondrous things that you could never figure out on your own” (Jeremiah 33:3, The Message). That verse is called “God’s private telephone number.” Call it often, and don’t forget to listen for the answers! Here are a few ways you as a busy mom can begin to de-stress, calm your heart, and focus on God’s presence: Make space for the Lord. Take some intentional “quietening” time during the day to connect with God and listen, even if you only start with five to 10 minutes before the family awakens or after they go to bed. Read the Bible, a devotional, and talk to God about your greatest concerns. See the everyday blessings God gives you as moments to connect with Him and thank Him for your child’s smile, the softness of a newborn baby’s skin, a brilliant sunset. Stroll a path in your neighborhood intent on listening to the Lord’s voice, or consider your drive time after work as a time to turn off talk radio and tune in to His voice. Breathe! As you take a hot bath or shower, breathe slowly and deeply, relaxing your mind and body. Be aware of your senses and ask the Holy Spirit to create in you a “clean heart” (Psalm 51:10) and empower you just as the water cleanses your body. As you do these simple things, you’ll find your mind and spirit will be renewed and refreshed, more able to handle mothering and life. This article is adapted from A Busy Woman’s Guide to Prayer: Forget the Guilt and Find the Gift, by Cheri Fuller. Cheri Fuller is a wife, a mother, an inspirational speaker, and an award-winning author of 30 books, including her newest, "The School Saavy Kids Series" (which includes Raising Motivated Kids, School Starts at Home, and Talkers, Watchers & Doers); The Mom You're Meant to Be: Loving Your Kids While Leaning on God; Fearless: Building a Faith That Overcomes Your Fear; and Motherhood 101: Ideas and Inspiration to Be a Great Mom. A former teacher, Cheri loves to encourage moms, and her desire to renew women's hearts and build families has inspired her messages and magazine articles, which provide hope and encouragement to women throughout the United States and other countries. Cheri was an education and parenting writer for Family Circle for a number of years. Visit her online at www.cherifuller.com. What do you do to “quiet” yourself during the day? | Top | Share Your Thoughts... Be the first to comment on this article! |
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