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Being an effective, inspiring dad may be the most important challenge you will ever accomplish in life. It’s hard. It’s risky. And it’s a matter of life and death to our kids. Of course, you wouldn’t know that based on the messages we get from the media, which rank being an effective dad way down on the list of priorities, behind being a stud-muffin, amassing a fortune before you’re 40, inventing the Internet and having a body that makes the folks at Bowflex want to use you as their next spokesman.

But seeing our kids grow up with a sense of purpose, anchored in a strong self-image that comes from knowing they are loved and important, are things that impact not just a life, but potentially generations. What a dad brings to a child’s self-esteem and personality are priceless. We offer honest, relevant, practical answers when you seek help, encouragement and insight into being the most effective, impacting dad possible.

 

January 28, 2010
A Doctor’s Suggestions for Dads
Keeping Your Child’s Spiritual, Emotional, Physical Health Up to Par


1) Let your love and faithfulness to the Lord be evident to your children.
2) Let your love for your wife be evident to your children.
3) You ...

January 28, 2010
It Would Have Been Nice to Have a Father …
Honest Thoughts From College Students About the Dads They Wish They’d Had

“It would have been nice to have a father who was present. Not just physically present, though that would have certainly been nice, too. Present in ...

January 28, 2010
Just for Us Dads
We’re Dads; We Know What to Do

As fathers, we know best. Right? I mean, we just know what is right. At least, we think we do. And we work to force others ...

January 28, 2010
Rest for the Weary

My firstborn son also writes, mixing melody and honesty. Like what happens with many good poets and songwriters, his nonfiction life displays drama. Taylor gave his ...

January 28, 2010
What My Husband Did Right as a Dad
A Mom’s Point of View

As usual, our date was lasting longer than it should. I was sure my mother was about to flash the front door lights to warn me ...

September 3, 2009
“This Old Car”

This old car, was once brand newOn the day, that you, were bornBut sixteen years, have rolled right throughAnd soon you’ll drive me on your ownSixteen ...

September 3, 2009
A Few Tips for Parents of Teens

As small children, our kids are so smart, we think. So it should come as no surprise to us that by the time they’re teenagers, they ...

September 3, 2009
A Lesson in Teaching Your Kids
...so they'll enjoy learning

As kids are gearing up to start another school year, there are many ways you, as a dad, can teach your kids – while they have ...

September 3, 2009
Know When to Take a Hike

The dishes are stacking up. Soggy cereal from the kids’ breakfast is caked inside your sink (by the way, cereal is much easier to clean when ...

September 3, 2009
My Real Job

6 a.m.: The clock radio interrupts my sleep with news of a coup in Latin America, a drop in the stock market and more fighting in ...

September 3, 2009
Remember Who You Are

When I was in high school and would leave my house to go out with my friends, my mom would always say the same thing to ...

September 3, 2009
The Leadership Label
It Can Lead to Your Student's Success

Before your kids head off to college, label them. If you don’t, someone else will. You don’t need a Ph.D. in cultural studies to know what ...

September 3, 2009
Who’s Setting the Tone in Your Home?

It’s all about attitude. Sometimes we let our teenager’s attitude control the mood of our house. What a mistake! With a teenager’s developing emotions, raging hormones, ...

December 26, 2008
A New Year
Wanting to Live Last Year Again

Sometime in late December, I asked my middle son, Aaron, what he wanted for the new year. He thought. I waited. He takes questions ...

December 26, 2008
Dad’s Christmas Letter

Dear Dad, As I thought and thought about what to write to you, I began to feel writer’s block. My mind ...

December 26, 2008
Suggestions for Change in the New Year

How can we end the year? How can we enter the new one?I’m not sure how to control circumstances or situations. Nor am I sure how ...

December 26, 2008
When Daddy Says ...

When Daddy says, “You can do it, son, you can do it,” it makes me feel like I can conquer the world. An inner strength wells ...

December 25, 2008
A White Christmas

Common matches and marketing catches leave executives grinning. As they lowered hopes of seasonal sales success, grateful hearts result from money spent, deals lent, promises bent. ...

December 3, 2008
10 Things Every Dad Should Know During the Christmas Season

Shop ahead! Last-minute shopping for all those people is not the best way to show Christmas spirit, especially as you shove that old lady out of ...

December 3, 2008
A Labor of Love

Mother Teresa once said, “There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.”So why not show our kids a little love ...

December 1, 2008
A Good Dad Is Ego-less

A good dad learns to put others first in the way he organizes his time. It may mean less sleep, not watching his favorite television show ...

December 1, 2008
I Hate to Get Sentimental …
but I Really Love My Dad

As the holidays approach, I find myself missing my family more and more. While being away at college certainly has its perks (like deciding two o’clock ...

December 1, 2008
Stuffed Animals
When We Could Not Be By His Side

Whether it was the heat lamp giving off warmth and an amber glow, or a combination of monitors and dimmed fluorescent lights, for little to no ...

December 1, 2008
The Art of Quality Time

Looking to spend some quality time with your children? Here’s a suggestion. Take time this week to look through the artwork from Brent Chitwood’s website (www.rembrentart.com/portraits.html). ...

August 7, 2008
A Moment of Significance

We all have powerful moments with lasting significance in our lives. Some are happy, some are sad, some are painful, and some lead to regret. The ...

August 1, 2008
Keep the Romance Alive

How many men can honestly say they love their wife more today than the day they married her? Whether or not you are among that blessed ...

August 1, 2008
Making Memories – and Very Happy Kids

In April, we talked about the importance of fathers spending time with their children in the article “Time Is of the Essence: Spend Time With Your ...

July 21, 2008
Go, Team, Go!
5 Tips for Dads of Athletes

Being the parent of an athlete can be very rewarding, yet mind numbingly frustrating at times. When our children succeed at sports, we want to shout ...

June 17, 2008
An Open Letter to My Son…

My middle son, Darren, turned 21 last week. So we did the typical Welday birthday tradition of bringing him Dunkin Donuts to eat in bed the ...

May 12, 2008
A Story of Perspective

When we are trying so hard to raise our kids to do the right thing in all things all the time, we sometimes can lose perspective ...

May 12, 2008
Leading a Balanced Life

Among his many accomplishments, in 1991, Patrick Morley founded Man in the Mirror, which trains and resources church leaders to reach men more effectively. Taken from ...

May 12, 2008
Patience Really Is a Virtue

Having the patience of Job in the Bible is often important when dealing with children. Yes, that may seem the master of the obvious, but many ...

May 11, 2008
Talk—and Listen—to Your Children
Finding Common Ground During Disagreements

I remember one winter day in 2006, when my son and I were having a heated battle about music. I thought what he listened to was ...

May 9, 2008
10 Ways to Correct Behavior Without Crushing Character

Have you ever noticed how many life lessons you can learn in a garden? In a few cubic yards of dirt, rocks and bugs, you can ...

May 8, 2008
Money, Money, Money
When to Teach Your Kids About Finances

Ever wonder when is the time to begin talking to your child about finances? When you’ve made that decision, do you struggle with where to start ...

May 8, 2008
Teaching Your Kids Honesty, Integrity
They'll Learn by Your Example

In this day and age in which children are accustomed to downloading music and movies for free, how do you teach them about integrity?Believe it or ...

April 29, 2008
Time Is of the Essence
Spend Time With Your Kids; It’s What They Want

Of the 1,440 minutes in each day, how many are you spending with your child?Despite the new car you may buy them for their 16th birthday, ...

March 27, 2008
Be a Winning Parent
21 Ways to Make a Positive Impact on Your Child's Life

Parenting is not for wimps. Sure, to some, parenting may come easy. But for most of us, it’s two steps forward, one step back. Loads of ...

March 26, 2008
10 Commandments to Help the Absent Father Syndrome

Most “absent fathers” are not absent by intentional choice, but rather other life choices and priorities have combined – resulting in a lot of time away ...

March 26, 2008
Keeping in Touch With Your Kids

Our culture has correctly focused in recent years on the tragedies of physical and sexual abuses that kids have encountered. As a result, some parents have ...

March 26, 2008
Knighthood: An Outline for Bringing Your Son to Manhood

Though historians would probably say the knight once popularized by literature was more an ideal than a reality, still he remains a powerful metaphor. In fact, ...

March 23, 2008
Fathering
3 Principles to Help You on Your Journey

There are many goals we have as fathers for our children, but what is it we ultimately want for our children? I think our ultimate goal ...

January 20, 2008
10 Ways to Build Relationships With Your Children

When I was a kid growing up, my dad was a carpenter. Every night when he came home from work, I could smell wood and see ...

January 20, 2008
A Place At the Table: Michael W. Smith Musician / Family Man

During his 20-plus years of ministry, Michael W. Smith has become one of the most influential artists in the Christian music industry, recording 15 albums that ...

January 20, 2008
About Your Child’s Health

If you’re looking for a great Web site for information and education concerning the health of your child, check out KidsHealth.org. KidsHealth.org is the largest and ...

January 20, 2008
Helping Our Kids Overcome Procrastination

Perhaps one of the most important tasks a dad can help a child understand is the concept of following through with responsibilities. If you’re like most ...

January 20, 2008
Murphy's Laws of Parenting

Learning the ins and outs of “dadhood” requires a lot of on-the-job education. Every dad knows there are certain universal “laws” that govern much of what ...

January 20, 2008
Online Pornography and Your Kids

According to Pastor Kenny Luck, men’s pastor at Saddleback Church in Southern California, 9 in 10 kids between the ages of 8 and 16 have viewed ...

January 20, 2008
The 6 Most Important Things a Father Can Say to His Child

Where better to get advice on how to speak to your sons (and daughters) than from the ultimate father, God Himself. Let’s take a look ...

November 17, 2007
10 Building Blocks for Helping Your Kids Become Champions in Life

by Jim Burns, Ph.D., and Pat WilliamsWhat does it take to become a champion in life? Recently, I had the privilege of interviewing Pat Williams, who ...

November 17, 2007
Help for Internet Porn

by Dr. Drew EdwardsWhat used to found only in the darkest corners of society is now only two clicks away on the Internet. Sexually explicit images, ...

November 17, 2007
MATTHEW AND HIS DAD
A Lesson in Modern-Day Missions

Several years ago, I was in charge of the sports ministry at a local church. I wasn’t really sure how it should be done, but my ...

November 17, 2007
The Difference Between Men and Males

It wasn’t too long ago that my oldest son David was graduating from high school. Like all dads, I whined about having to sit through what ...

November 17, 2007
Why Real Men Won’t Go to the Doctor

It was philosopher Yogi Berra who once said, “You can observe a lot by watching.” And every dad knows that if boys are going to grow ...

November 16, 2007
DADDYLAND

Author: Andrew StenhouseFor single parents, time is more carefully scrutinized around New Years. I tend to notice it more, how quickly it goes, and how little ...

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